Having moved a few times in my lifetime, I have become somewhat of what you might call a pro (OK at least in my mind). Here are my top ten tips for moving and making your life easier before and after the move.
1. Develop a system for you to identify boxes and what's in them. I like to use the color system, each room in my house is assigned a color. Using construction paper or colored duct tape, mark the boxes. Usually, I go with the construction paper so I can number/label the boxes easier. On the paper I also write what is in the box. Each room is given their "Number one" box: this is the box that has to be opened first, it includes, bed linens, there is something about sleeping in your own bed from the first night. We also have a whole house box number one: this includes plastic toasting glasses (gotta toast your new house before you do anything), toilet paper, tape, tool box, paper towels, cleaning supplies, flashlights, candles. I also take it a step further and in my moving notebook, write the number of boxes per room and what is it each one. This helps for keeping track of everything but also if there is a box lost, I know what to list on the insurance claim.
2. Have your children help as much as possible. Moving is very stressful for everyone involved, especially the little ones. Read to them, ask them questions, let them ask you questions. I give my kiddos jobs that they are in charge of. Pumpkin loves to run around and give hugs and kisses, so she is the hug giver. Trust me, it is an important job when you are frustrated, there is something wonderful about a hug from your baby girl! Peanut on the other hand gets the job of box counter. He goes from room to room and tells me exactly how many boxes there are. He is also in charge of making sure they are all packed together on the truck. Create jobs for them at the new place as well. This will help keep them occupied! I also assign them of their rooms, we pack them together but they are "boss."
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| Pumpkin's badge to wear on moving day! |
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| Peanuts Badge to wear on moving day! |
3. Start planning and packing as early as possible. This will help to keep everything organized and you won't have to rush as much. With the early packing you can keep things together and if need be known what you have to purchase when you get to your new house. This also creates the opportunity to create a countdown chart for the keiki. I love doing this and on the bottom of the chart a corresponding activity like number 5 below. This will also give you time to gather/collect boxes! Browse craigslist, freecycle for people with boxes they are trying to get off their hands. Chances are you will get them for free!
4. Getta Ridda (that's my sister's official term from when she was 5). Purge your items. I guarantee you will find items that you haven't used/seen/thought about in months, maybe even years. I use the rule of thumb, if you haven't used it in 6 months most likely you won't need it. Exception to the rule: seasonal items, obviously you don't use your Christmas decorations for months at a time. (even those could be sorted). If you donate them, it can be a tax deduction (which is nice for the budget)
5. Take a stroll at your new place. If you are moving close enough that you can take a couple of hours and familiarize yourself with your new neighborhood, DO IT!!!! In my case, most of my moves were long distances, so that's when we visit via the computer. Show the kiddos pictures of their new school, neighborhood, location of the closest park etc. Learn when your garbage pick up is, this will be very helpful when moving! If you can show them your new house. Give them something to look forward to, not stress about.
6. Start transferring all of your important stuff prior to your move. This ties in with start as early as possible. Switch your kids school records, give the school a call and start the process before you get there, same thing with the doctors. Sign up for grocery cards (unless they have the same stores), start forwarding your mail. Doing these little steps will help make the transitions smoother, make sure to start/transfer your utilities. Nothing like getting to your new house and not having lights! Find out from the DMV what you have to do to switch your license. Gather all of your important papers and place them somewhere that you could find at any point of your trip/move. I have a section in my moving binder that copies of everything insurance cards, birth certificates, car registration, prescription information. You never know and it is better to have it and not need it than need it and not have it. (wow, that sounds so much like my father).
7. Pack an "emergency bag." No matter how you are getting to your new house, having a bag with extra clothes, toiletries, extra copies of insurance etc., medication, diapers etc. I moved once and the truck got lost, I ended up spending the night buying everything that I know I already had to make it through until the truck showed up. I also make ones for the keiki, with extra toys, puzzles, crayons etc.
8. Pack your truck/cars by room. It might not be the easiest way to pack it but when you are trying to unload a truck and having to walk all around the house like a crazy person, it makes it harder. My personal preference is to pack the majority of the furniture together but still sorted by room. This helps to keep everything organized and will help make your next few days of unpacking easier..... This is a combo tip.. unpack and set up your beds first. (See tip number 1). There is something so soothing about sleeping in your own bed even if the rest of the house is in disarray!
9. Have a shopping list ready to go. Depending on your move, obviously if you are moving across the city you won't need to throw food away. If you are moving across the country, then you have another story. I like to prepare a couple of days worth of food and put them in coolers (instead of ice, fill a 2 liter bottle halfway of water and drop it in). This way you aren't splurging on take out and if need be you have food for your trip. This also will help with getting your kitchen set up and while you are setting up the rest of the place, you will have snacks and drinks.
10. Enjoy your last few nights and first nights at your new place. As silly as it might sound or as stressful, I try to plan activities the last few nights we are at our place. Nothing fancy but a fun way to say good bye to our "old house." Have a picnic in the living room, camp in the backyard, autograph a place in your house, leave a note in a fun location for the new people moving in. Do the same thing when you move to your new house as well. One of the ones the kids love the most is slumber party in mama and Dada's room. Make the transition as easy as possible.
Other hints:
Set up the kids rooms first- give them somewhere to go when you are doing the rest of the house.
take lots of pictures- I can hear it now...... right... like you will have time to take pictures. take a photo tour of your old house, it is always fun to go back and see where you lived. Take pictures of your new house, it's fun to see what it looked like when you first moved in. Who does't like before and afters?
Don't be in such a rush to "renovate/change" everything.... I am sure there are things you want to change right away, but take time to get to know your house. Your wishes/needs might be different or not even apparent until you live there!
Get to know your neighbors.. the sooner the better.. you never know, maybe they will come help you unpack! One can dream right????
New house/ New traditions..... one of the things that I have learned is that families are bound by our traditions. You can read move about that in my
family mission statement post. In your new house, start a new tradition, you will be surprised how fast your new place feels like "home."
Last but not least, make a moving announcement and share some of the photos with your family and friends!